HOW SHOULD WE REMEMBER HER!!!!!

YAUM E GHAM (8th Shawwal)..

We all commemorate and then go back to our routine ,mundane lives..but yet when a problem or calamity befalls us in our loudest wailing voices we say "YA ZAHRA" and she is always there ready to help us along with her children..our saviours and guides in Duniya and Akherah..

There are 2 points worth pondering over:
1)When we remember the destruction of Jannatul Baquee we curse the people who destroyed the graveyard where the Holy Prohet SAW's kith and kin are buried...But is this cursing enough ?? are we going to be silent spectators to the most atrocious crime committed in Islamic History???
What shall we tell her when we face her on the Yauma Tublaus Saraaer??? (Day when deeds will be unravelled with reference to Surah Taariq : Verse 8)

I dont know if it will be of any use or not..or is it going to cast any bearing over the decision makers all over the world..but may be we could send out mails,letters to all those agencies,goverments,peace organisations demanding the reconstruction of this honoured and revered site.

2)On a deeper insight into the demolition.. those who destroyed the graveyard and even in her lifetime ,the ones whose actions annoyed her and made her weep , we often find ourselves cursing but shall we not ponder over the fact that arent we doing those things which would most likely make her weep and be annoyed with us?

We shed copious tears over her masaeb,over the tragedy which befell her family in Shaam and Kufa..and then teary eyed we step out of the majlis... our CHADORS.... gone with the wind..we cry over the Adha'aan of Ali Akbar and ..snuggle deeper into the comforts of our beds at the time of Fajr..

I often wonder.. DO WE REALLY HAVE THE RIGHT TO CURSE OTHERS...WHILE OUR ACTIONS ON DIFFERENT SCALES DO INCUR HER ANGER????